A quick reminder of the simple things we forget in our busy lives. about self-growth, self awareness and self love. In a quick and simple list of the things I learnt this year.
The best 31 things I learnt.
I started learning how to put myself before anyone else.
I learnt to not let people take advantage of me. Even when I didn’t care enough.
I decided not to let others see the disaster in me
before understanding it myself .
I learnt to depend on myself and no one else.
I learnt to ask my own opinion before anyone else’s.
I learnt to be weak,
I learnt to cry,
I learnt to give up and let go for no one but myself.
I learnt to not ruin myself for others.
I learnt to not stop my work to be available for others I learnt that there is a difference between those who care and stick with you and the ones that will leave the moment you do something wrong.
I learnt to know the difference.
I learnt to not hold my tongue back for someone else’s comfort.
I learnt to not stop myself just because someone else wants me to.
I learnt to not chop myself down and hand pieces of me to everyone around.
I learnt to let go of the ones that hold me down.
I learnt it is okay to be sad for no reason.
I learnt that I am always going to be with myself, And myself only.
I learnt to embrace that.
I learnt that maybe someday I will grow old and I will have bad ears and painful legs and I will still have to work on myself.
I learnt to put my choices above everyone else’s.
I decided my opinions and choices matter.
I decided to think about myself before anyone else.
I decided to not let the things that hurt me, just go every single time without a single punishment.
I learnt that I have a lot of flaws.
I learnt that I don’t need to impress anyone but myself.
I learnt I don’t need to laugh on shitty jokes and I don’t have to try making anyone laugh.
I don’t have to feel guilty about being cocky if I like it.
I don’t have to feel guilty about being too loud.
I Don’t have to worry what other’s think of me It is who they are, it doesn’t define me.
I learnt that I don’t need to be anyone else’s definition of beautiful but mine I learnt that I don’t have to listen to others if I don’t want to I can be myself.
And I can be alone.
I learnt that I don’t mind that at all.
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So These are the things I taught myself this year. What are yours? Let us know so maybe we can exchange notes and inspire some more 😉
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